36 questions to fall in love is a set of questions designed to foster intimacy and connection between two people. The questions delve into personal experiences, values, and aspirations, creating an environment for deep self-disclosure and vulnerability. The concept gained popularity after being featured in a 1997 New York Times article, which suggested that asking and answering these specific questions could increase feelings of closeness and love between strangers.
The questions are divided into three sets, each building upon the previous one. The first set focuses on surface-level topics, such as favorite colors and childhood memories. The second set delves deeper, exploring personal beliefs and values. The third and final set encourages participants to share their most intimate thoughts and feelings.